There was once a frog who never listened to his parents. When they would ask him to do the dishes, he let them pile up until his mom or dad did them. When they told him to turn off the TV and go to bed, he stayed up watching it until he fell asleep.
“I’m a big frog,” he would say, “I don’t need parents to tell me what to do.”
After months of their son not cooperating and following their rules, Mr. and Mrs. Frog grew frustrated. They told their son they would let him stay on his own, and be an independent frog.
Frog was happy he was finally being trusted, and promised his parents to do what he needed, and in return they would not be there to tell him what to do.
By the end of his first week alone, Frog had no clean dishes left. He was always exhausted from staying up so late watching the TV, and his grades were already dropping, because his parents weren’t around to tell him to do the work. One night he was hungry, but forgot to go shopping. It wouldn’t matter if he had gone anyway, because he had no clean dishes to use.
Finally frustrated that the dishes were dirty, and tired from staying up, Frog cleaned. He cleaned, did his work, and went to bed early. The next day Frog went back home and told his parents he didn’t like being left on his own just yet, and the responsibility of being an adult was too much. He realized how frustrated his parents must have been, and moved back home. Every time his parents asked him to do something and he thought of ignoring them, he remembered his own frustrations and messes, and realized his parents’ requests are preparing him to be on his own, and that he should listen to them.